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And until you let go of this negative, self-fulfilling prophecy, you’re going to keep perpetuating that same cycle of desperation, need, and abandonment. If she doesn’t like the way he texts, calls, communicates, kisses, or commits, she can dump him at any time.
A confident woman knows she holds all the cards in the relationship.
I don’t have many hobbies to focus on which is probably part of my problem. I used to have a happier more fulfilling life when I didn’t think so much about guys. ☺ The wisest among us are the ones who can acknowledge and understand another’s point of view.
And I’m sure being this desperate and needy probably scares them away. It doesn’t mean you’re going to change your mind entirely, but it means you have to be open to the possibility of a different truth.
They are fed well with clean grain, seen by a vet and kept clean so, I guess they’re pretty happy and comfortable.
The new caretakers are working out much better than the previous ones, and that’s made all the difference.
Before you even buy your first piglet or Momma-piggy..
If they live there, you can’t fire them and there you are.. Next thing you know, piglets are ‘disappearing’ as they make money on the side selling your piglets to neighbors while you shoulder all the expenses.
Instead of seeing yourself as this low self-esteem, sad, put-upon girl who throws herself at unavailable men only to discover that, in fact, they’re unavailable, how about you flip the script? When I started reading the letter I could identify with that feeling in many ways, and “not wanting to be alone” lead me to tolerate things I shouldn’t have and to act in ways that didn’t make me feel proud of myself.
In other words, you need a complete mindset reboot. A confident woman knows there’s always another guy out there, and therefore, never worries about getting rid of disappointing men. You have what I call intern energy – you’re desperate for a job, you’ll take anything, you’ll work for free – and, as a result, no one values you. Start valuing yourself now and watch men follow suit.
I have a lot of fears, loneliness, and the need for someone to be affectionate and hold me. Dear Ashley, Did you ever notice how two people can look at the exact same situation through completely different eyes? Here’s your truth: You think you’re not good enough for men.
I completely agree with Evan, and I would add that life has lessons, and if we don’t learn them, they come back and knock you harder until you learn your lesson.Hello, Evan, I have written to you before saying I have a horrible time keeping guys. Either they lose interest or I think that I’m not good enough for them. When I wrote to you before, you told me that I have to stop being the guy, but it is so hard for me just to wait around and be approached. to the point that it’s kind of become an obsession. Maybe you need to learn to be alone and be ok with yourself, until you learn that, you won’t be able to he with anybody else.